A little thoughts of my own here.

WOMEN: you have tried this several times. And it worked when I was 13. Now, I smell it a mile away.

Take Girl A. She kinda digs Guy A, but thinks Guy A is a womanizer (he probably is, most of us are, its just the truth.) Girl A takes her friend Girl B and has Girl B hit on Guy A also, to see if he bites. Cause after all, he should just be interested in Girl A and no one else.

puhlease. Let's analyze this.
First off, ladies, be careful with your choice for Girl B. Because if she is really attractive, really witty, really intelligent.... it can be equated to having someone offer you an extra 10g's to your current salary, even though you only got your current job last month. If we don't smell the deception, we are probably going to bite. Why? Human nature. Survival of the fittest. Something along those lines. Most of us always want more, something better, something more pleasing. That is why we always have to get the new phones even though that extra feature means nothing and cost you an extra $350, WHO CARES. It's all about status, right? Point is, if you're looking to buy a Honda, and you find a Bentley for the same price.... do the math. Simple choice, and thats how Girl A gets pissy, Girl B whores herself out (not literally, in most cases. though Girl B might wind up attracted to Guy A and then who knows, Girl A is stuck alone, again, and worthless. Because of her need for detective work. Take some advice, curiosity killed the cat my friend.)

I tend to stray from the topic at hand, in case you haven't noticed.

So yes, most of the time Girl A can score some insider info or find out how much of a sucker Guy A is with a little help of her friend with the big, beautiful---- eyes?
So I think my point was Girl A should not blame Guy A, she obviously didn't have him tied down well. For him to be open to suggestions should not be wild, it should be a hint that maybe he is desirable and if she were to really be interested, she better get on that. Again, not literally, we know how that road goes.

I guess I pose the question to you women- How often do you find this to work? Why do you really waste your time with this? Unless you are in a relationship, what do you gain from it? We are talking, most likely, about the 20 somethings here. And what do they want? To settle down immediately with someone they barely know? Umm.. lemme think
NO
We want to date and figure out exactly what interests us and someday, someday, we will find that someone. But probably not at 22 when we are fresh out of getting drunk every Thursday-Wednesday and drunk women were just too plentiful. Sad, maybe, but true, definitely.


But I see this with my friends too. And some of them are suckers and don't even realize they were duped. Because often Girl B is strong enough to diss Guy A and his new found advances and dirty talk, and then Guy A is stuck in a shitstorm of estrogen with little chance of escape with his testicles intact. Go figure.

But really, many of us have caught onto this tactic ladies. It may work often, but when it happens to me, I play along just to make everyone nuts and confused. That makes it way, way more fun in the end.






Speaking of the end......