Sex.

18+ :)
haha, really though, this could get graphic, so bring your adult and quit giggling at the word penis and vagina.

By request, what I think makes good sex.
And misconceptions of good sex, and all things sexual. Including kissing.

ALWAYS start with kissing. Hot, passionate kissing. There is a fine line however. Make sure you are not swallowing the other person's face, or using a little too much tongue action. Guys (and unfortunately, some girls) be sure you aren't scraping up your lover's face too much with your stubble. 10 minutes of kissing with no attacking the genitals should be ideal. Get the ideas and juices flowing.

I'll proceed to attacking the oral sex, the whole foreplay thing can be skipped because it is not always necessary. Feel eachother out. If she likes a little tickling and teasing (which they all do, throw some in before jumping into anything else. Remember the old cliche, it really is about warming the oven up. And trust me, you'll know when she hits 400 degrees). And ladies, sometimes the guy wants a little teasing too, we aren't always just wanting to throw it in. Both men and women are normally clueless about what it takes. And oral is not necessary every time. Sometimes there are time constraints. Other times you are both so god damn riled up from whatever that it is warranted to tear clothes off and go at it before you even hit a bed. But alas.....

Ladies- it is not a popsicle. I don't care what you've heard, licking around it does absolutely nothing. N O T H I N G. Let me drop some knowledge. The most nerve endings are located in the bulbous head at the top there. So, use those brains, and some deduction, and figure out what the best spot to attack is. And do not forget, you have hands to assist, and boy, can they assist. Most men will twitch a little if you put your hand anywhere near their ass, mostly because if we aren't comfortable with that we get a creepy scary thought of something gay, so we twitch. But these same guys will have no problem with you and a little ball fondling, believe me. That makes for great dome.

Now men, do you even perform oral sex? It seems to be a lost art. I personally have a crush on it, but I've heard time and time again that guys are either not into it or rarely will attempt a little carpet cleaning. BAD IDEA. My only question, women, is why do you NOT like it? I've heard from more than a few that they do not like it when a guy does that, or it does nothing to them. First off, get rid of your damn insecurities. You have a wonderful vagina and it tastes like candy, okay? Secondly, find a guy who knows what the hell he is doing. If that isn't an option, help him around a little. Tell him where you like it best, and how you want it done. Sometimes we are just a lost as you are without directions. Do it until your tongue hurts or she is begging for a little penetration. Speaking of, throw a finger in, why not, it's only going to help you in the long run, because chances are you keep missing her clitoris by a 1/3 inch and she wants to punch you anyway. Keep it up, she will thank you for it right after. And seriously, stop the alphabet thing, or focusing on just one spot. You do not want that thing sore before you even get to do more. That rhymes. Write it down.

NOW, sex. Mmmmm. There is a time and place for a hot quickie, and you will know, because she will more or less tell you. And if you can't pick up on visual or auditory clues, and you aren't blind or deaf, you should probably stop having sex, forever.
Ideal time? Depends on the situation. Can be as little as twenty minutes, or as long as 45, an hour if warranted. Slow passionate love making has it's time and place, but getting rough and speeding up will help move things along when she's about to burst. Try me. Though ladies, unfortunately, making him go faster will also make him GO faster, know what I mean? Some guys unfortunately think missionary is best, and will continue in only that position. Sigh. Ladies, stop moaning, slap him, tell him to flip you over already! Hint fellas, it's not that great, unless you do it right. In that position, your penis is entering at a terrible angle and missing her clitoris. Remember, that thing is key to her wanting you again. What to do, you ask? Grab a pillow, put it under her hips. Even a hand under the ass and lifting it up can make a world of difference. Again, don't believe me? Try it, you'll HEAR a difference.

Which positions are best? For a guy, doggystyle is normally refreshing after the usual missionary. Just so happens men, it makes you feel better to the ladies as well. So doggy away, but do not neglect her, as it is the least personal position that there can be. And she doesn't like that, because she probably wants to kiss you, or grab you, or at least look at you and make sure you are enjoying it. So give a little reach around, lean down and kiss her back, tell her shes beautiful and how great it feels. Watch the hair tugging, don't want to hurt her! A little tug is okay but make sure she's into it or you might wind up with blue balls. And try something fun out, have her put her legs together. Again, you will notice a difference.

And when she's on top, let her do the work, at least for a little while. Two reasons
1) she knows what she is doing, better than you, and will work it to her advantage. So let her, stop trying to thrust like a moron, cause it won't work with her hip motions.
2) you're probably wheezing as it is, it is kinda like a break so you can store up some of that energy for when she gets off and is bored but wants more and in a new position.

Speaking of positions, try to mix it up. Please don't only have missionary, doggy, and her on top as your repertoire. Sure, most of you are done before you even get one of those going, but see what else you can do. Use her legs, move them in different directions. Lift them, put them to the side, discover your own positions. Cause truth is, most of those positions in porn are just so that you can see the genitals, not because it is really making her moan like that.

Oh and lastly, lasting forever is not always better for her. Remember, she is not as big as you are (hopefully) and can bruise and/or get sore. Cause you probably have her legs spread wide open the whole time like an idiot anyway. Get her off, at least once, but if it's going for more than an hour cause you're drunk, and probably half hard at that point, and she's kinda only moaning to get you off (you can tell, you sweaty mess) just get it done. She'll be happier in the morning when you roll over for more, and actually want it.

I may be wrong, I may be right. These don't all work for everyone, but I would say that is a decent synopsis of having better or at least more successful sex. Or keep letting her fake it and keep licking around his penis and wonder why he fell asleep before you even got him hard.