Random thoughts.

Is it always better to have loved and lost? Cause the way I see it, that next part "...than to have never loved at all" is a bunch of bullshit. Hopefully we each grow up with some love in our hearts, be it for our family, our best friends, whomever we are closest with. To have loved and lost, where does that get us? Heartbroken? Angry, vengeful? Depends how we lose the person I guess. To lose someone to a passing is one thing- I would never argue with that. What if you lose a significant other because you found out the two timing bastard/bitch was cheating on you with half the Minnesota Vikings football team/cheerleading squad (I for a fact, know that my next girlfriend will not be attending any "boat parties"). Is it better to have loved and lost him or her? Probably not, imagine what that will do to you mentally? You will wind up bitter, not trusting anyone or anything, without feelings for a little while, and just plain pissed off at times- tell me how you are better off? Let me guess, you will have telltale signs the next time around? Probably not, those don't work. People can be discreet and in relationships- I call it the INTERNET! Not hard to get away with shit on there that your hunny/stud cannot trace, am I wrong? What else could be a positive gain from it all- you know how to be picky from now on? Yeah, probably too picky, and either controlling, in an attempt not to lose someone (which will lose them quicker), or unable to open up for a long, long time to someone, no matter how great they seem. Because the last one seemed just as great if not better, and look how easily she was bent over/he was between her legs. So in these cases, I say fuck that- love the ones you know love back unrequited, and the ones that won't wind up in Girls Gone Wild- Fuck Everyone on the Planet edition (that has to be coming soon, they're getting less creative as time goes on...) or the ones that would leave you in a heartbeat for the girl with the tight ass crossing the street that may or may not have just winked in his direction. I find it immensely hard to engage in a quality relationship at my age- like I've said before.. maybe I sabotage it because I know what I really want, and it is not yet here. Or maybe it's just hard to find someone, not ready to settle down, but at least ready to calm down and put on some form of blinders, figuratively speaking. I have loved and lost- and since I haven't loved anything at all but those that have always been there for me- family, and my dogs (like woof woof), because they are too dumb to double cross me.

Your thoughts are appreciated, but hey, remember, it's just my damn opinion.