Orgasms, from a woman, for the.. women?

My life was threatened if I did not post this. Enjoy?
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This past weekend was the bachelorette party. We saw a few drunk men who performed strip teases for our bride very nice great bodies thank you. I noticed that these guys are grooming their pubes, we appreciate that too. In fact, thats fucking hot!

Of the bachelorette party, the majority had long-term boyfriends, except me and my best friend who kept chanting take it off, take, take it off!! pretty much the whole night.... :)

In fact, there was this one girl among the bachelorette party who was really judgmental of me and my friends rowdy behavior, which pisses me off. And I have been thinking a good deal about her actions and the things she said. Trying to put myself in her shoes and trying to make sense of it.

The girl doesnt like to drink, get rowdy, or have sex.why she was out with us is beyond me. I couldnt really figure out what she did like to do except bitch and be critical of everyone elses. My girlfriend and I were at one point discussing how much we love sex and how we needed to figure out a way to have as much of it as possible. one of our frequently occurring conversations. This girl chimed in that her boyfriend wants to have sex all the time and she hates it. Ohh if I only had such problems!! Being the bitch that I am I told her to give him my number, to which she shot me a nasty look. :) :) Then she started to imply that me and my girlfriend are sluts not for the fact that we are having lots of sex, because god knows since me and my ex broke up Ive had extremely minimal amounts of sex, but for the fact that we love and enjoy having sex.

But, I thought about it. When me and my long-term boyfriend were together we fucked all the time. It was great. Several times a weeknot everyday, but close to it. Every way, every where, every thing; we did it. We were together almost four years. Having an orgasm(s) was guarenteed and they were delicious. The best feeling I have ever had in my life. Just thinking about it makes me happy (and horny).

I couldnt imagine having such a complainthating that my boyfriend wants to fuck me? Why?? Why would someone say that?

Then I realized It finally hit me of course, after-the-fact, that this poor girl probably was not having orgasms!!! And I felt bad. I would be bitter and bitchy if I never got off either.

I didnt have my first orgasm until I was 20 years old.and since then two out of three guys Ive had sex with have made me cum. personally, I think its pretty easy to make me orgasm, so the third guy was just bad, had a small penis, and didnt know how to fuck. I wouldnt recommend dating him.

Prior to that point, I would sometimes lie to guys and tell them I orgasmed, but I really didnt. I didnt lie on purpose. I just didnt know what an orgasm was.and even after I consulted with other women and came to the conclusion I definitely wasnt having orgasms, being honest to a guy about his sexual performance isnt always beneficial.or taken constructively.

Actually, there was this one guy who broke up with me because he couldnt make me orgasm. This of course, was in my preorgasm days. I encouraged him that he could try a little harder and to not give up on me yet, but he didnt. It wasnt like he was some sex-god either I cant even recall if he went down on me. But if he did, it wasnt good. If a guy is good I never forget!! But, anyway, that guy had only been with one other girl who probably lied to him about orgasming anyway. Sorry I didnt lie!! No actually Im not!!!

But, I remember my frustration. All that fucking but never climaxing. And I wanted sooo bad to cum. [I wouldnt mind cumming right now :)]

I do want to say it isnt all up to the guy. As a woman you need to know how to make yourself cum. when to clench your muscles, how to move your hips, how to make sure your spots are hit, and how to really let yourself be in the moment. Breathing and moaning are important too. Not only does this let the guy know when he is doing something good, but breathing/moaning increases the flow of blood, which increases your sensitivity which magnifies the orgasm potential.

One fact is significant and I have compared notes with many girls: the older you get the hornier you get (this is for women, for men the opposite occurs).so if you are 18 years old and you are a horny little nugget then watch out for when 23 hits!!! The older you get, the better orgasms you get (again this is for women, I am unsure if the quality of the male orgasm increases or diminishes with age.but any men that would like to inform me/us I would be happy to hear from, probably in more ways than one!)

I am concerned that many women out there are not having orgasms. I feel that is terrible and if I can be of guidance in anyway please let me know. I am not afraid to get my hands dirty, so to speak, to help out the community... :)
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My very quick two cents:
I read today that an orgasm during intercourse is FOUR times better than an orgasm masturbating. Um, I need a girlfriend. I knew Rosey P was no good.








for those of you still clueless, the P stands for Palm, der.